We all grieve differently—there is no single “normal” way to grieve. Many people experience a wide range of emotions such as helplessness, anger, sadness, numbness, or confusion.
It is also common to notice changes in appetite, mood, energy levels, or sleep patterns. All of these responses are valid parts of the grieving process.

The death of a loved one is not something we simply “overcome.” There is no set timeline for grief. Over time, the intense pain often softens as we learn to live with our loss. Grief evolves rather than disappears, and our grief therapists can help you navigate this process at your own pace.

The healthiest way through grief is to feel your way through it rather than fighting, numbing, or denying your emotions. Some people process grief by openly sharing feelings (intuitive grievers), while others prefer thinking through the loss and completing practical tasks (instrumental grievers). Both approaches are valid. Our therapists help you discover what works best for you.

Grief is not linear—it is often messy and full of ups and downs. Grief triggers (certain dates, smells, songs, or memories) can bring intense waves of emotion even years later. As Jon Kabat-Zinn said, “You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” We can help you build skills to ride those waves with greater ease.

The best support is simple and specific. Acknowledge the loss, say the person’s name, and share positive memories. Offer concrete help such as “I’m bringing dinner on Sunday, would that work?” instead of a vague “Let me know if you need anything.” Avoid comments like “It’s time to move on” or placing timelines on their healing.

Maintain a safe, predictable routine and speak honestly with your child. Let them know it’s okay to talk about what happened, share memories, and express feelings. Model healthy grieving as children can learn by watching you. Showing your own emotions (including tears) gives them permission to feel sad too.